Rest in Peace my beautiful Mother

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjv2dAHJJv6wFBibwATGrX-bpioUXiiShtZlbPr7cgLAgPmRwcFNiq7W3FbhyphenhyphenUHqRcF8rC71ga2It2cXNbhjC7xECzGgwluXH27CjpTuk-UkuSwn0U_maJ7YuBE4qiu6Ew8v-EpTQFMBO8/s1600/Mom+with+flowers.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjv2dAHJJv6wFBibwATGrX-bpioUXiiShtZlbPr7cgLAgPmRwcFNiq7W3FbhyphenhyphenUHqRcF8rC71ga2It2cXNbhjC7xECzGgwluXH27CjpTuk-UkuSwn0U_maJ7YuBE4qiu6Ew8v-EpTQFMBO8/s640/Mom+with+flowers.jpg" width="426" /></a></div>We are burying my mother today. I've talked a lot here about my father over the years, but not as much about my mother. As with many mother/daughter relationships, we often find ourselves annoyed by things that it's possible we see in ourselves. But when the time of life runs short, the old annoyances become cherished foibles and the good memories are what's truly important.<br /><br />My mom died during the early hours of Thursday morning. She'd spent a week in the hospital for respiratory distress and pneumonia and other things, and then about a week and a half of an anticipated four weeks in rehab. Last Tuesday night, I had dinner with her and said good night at 8:00pm. They called my around 3AM to say she'd been sent to the hospital in respiratory distress. I was by her side shortly thereafter. My eldest brother arrived a while later and my middle brother flew in from Colorado by midnight Wednesday night. Throughout that long day and night, one of us was always with her. When my Dad had a heart attack the year before he died, she and I spent a night at the same hospital, in the same room, when we thought we would lose him. She was 79 at that time and no matter what, she was not going to leave him alone. My Dad was the love of her life. We three kids knew that while we were everything to them both, they were each other's core. And they are finally reunited.  The photo above was taken at the Spaulding Rehab Hospital (then Rehab of the Cape & Islands) when my parents volunteered there after they helped get my Dad back on his feet after a debilitating stroke. But it was Mom who made sure that he had a wonderful quality of life for the rest of his days. <br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi606AGl3W5QhZ7y6W-oJUEr69rN2s4duh7qyojlvQEwVOi-TLy6RDjOVFEQPb_pvrCc6abll7PQqoiCshVqEiJnF9SMZIPPk8QtFgPB5Y_Wqx1q5DdEA3X66sZnIFkBsk92IGuOba_-b0/s1600/IMG_2873.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="480" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi606AGl3W5QhZ7y6W-oJUEr69rN2s4duh7qyojlvQEwVOi-TLy6RDjOVFEQPb_pvrCc6abll7PQqoiCshVqEiJnF9SMZIPPk8QtFgPB5Y_Wqx1q5DdEA3X66sZnIFkBsk92IGuOba_-b0/s640/IMG_2873.JPG" width="640" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Mom and Me: 1962 - 2013 (photo taken earlier this year on her 85th birthday)</div><br />I wrote this on Facebook last Thursday:<br /><br /><span class="userContent">My beautiful mother Dorothy Costello Merrill passed away early this morning after a brief illness. We shared not only a face, but a home for the last couple of years. She was a true lady in every respect of the word. She was elegant and int<span class="text_exposed_show">elligent and earned a bachelors degree in English Literature at a time when it wasn't the norm for women. She taught me how to sew and to entertain. An early devotee of Julia Child, Mom was a gourmet cook and continued to try out new recipes from Ina Garten which she would look up online and print out herself. She adored our family above all else. She's with our Dad now and we're cheered to know they are reunited in faith and love. </span></span><br /><br /><span class="userContent"><span class="text_exposed_show">Her full <a href="http://www.legacy.com/guestbook/DignityMemorial/guestbook.aspx?n=dorothy-merrill&pid=168124030" target="_blank">obituary is here</a> if you're interested in learning more about her. </span></span><br /><br /><span class="userContent"><span class="text_exposed_show">After the funeral, we've invited attendees back to the house for lunch. We'll be serving a delicious Provencal Vegetable soup that my Mom made and froze just six or so weeks ago. It will be warm and nourishing, just as she was.  </span></span><br /><span class="userContent"><span class="text_exposed_show"><br /></span></span><span class="userContent"><span class="text_exposed_show">I will be returning to the blog next week sometime. I'm missing it, but there's much to do. Meanwhile, if your Mom is still with you, give her a hug from me. Happy Thanksgiving. </span></span><br /><span class="userContent"><span class="text_exposed_show"><br /></span></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWcUg_PRTrf0dNsLwH5xNnG-86XD1EifiJaxfOjuPK6FL81nUnRhKjIayQeCpvJB_9dOteWqGKa3Y9rB6MZDOFNAW284Qg4txM-kEcn5LTnC6HqX-1Ewdn98gPVQblfgWecjovmNdcv-U/s1600/Linda+sig2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWcUg_PRTrf0dNsLwH5xNnG-86XD1EifiJaxfOjuPK6FL81nUnRhKjIayQeCpvJB_9dOteWqGKa3Y9rB6MZDOFNAW284Qg4txM-kEcn5LTnC6HqX-1Ewdn98gPVQblfgWecjovmNdcv-U/s1600/Linda+sig2.jpg" /></a></div><span class="userContent"><span class="text_exposed_show"><br /></span></span>

Rest in Peace my beautiful Mother

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Designers Should be a Resource for their Clients

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.lindamerrill.com/Linda_Merrill/Portfolio-Duxbury-Guest_Bedroom_2_-Interior_Design-Massachusetts_2_files/shapeimage_5.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="528" src="http://www.lindamerrill.com/Linda_Merrill/Portfolio-Duxbury-Guest_Bedroom_2_-Interior_Design-Massachusetts_2_files/shapeimage_5.png" width="640" /></a></div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #6d6e70; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, Kalimati, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;">In this world there are "holders" and there are "connectors." Holders treat their resources, time and materials like precious metals that need to be saved for "best." Connectors, on the other hand, are great at making introductions, offering resources, referrals or other services simply because they can. If knowledge is power, the Holders believe it needs to be carefully dispensed in order to be effective and the Connectors think its importance is derived from how far it travels.</span><br /><br />Read more on <a href="http://www.wsidesignermarketplace.com/content/designer/Design_Blog/2013/11/great_designers_are.html" target="_blank">Williams-Sonoma Designer Marketplac</a>e.<br /><br /><br />I'd like to give another shout out - this time to Traci of<a href="http://www.beneathmyheart.net/2013/11/favorite-pins-friday-63/" target="_blank"> Beneath My Heart Blog</a> for including three of my project shots (including the image above) in her Favorite Pins Friday post.<br /><br />I hope everyone has a great weekend. My mom is still in the hospital, but is getting a little better each day!<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQ1etkNnFypQckrkKRP9Ds29gJWXG4xFYknQB3MCn88TTb2htsdVUyuwGY0RmldJbKkeFz1Voabo8HbiIo12AWqctYxlDSLmjKt6wi_fmgu-45XkQ9fELFnRVe5Q90h82V6h2xszhc5gk/s1600/Linda+sig2.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQ1etkNnFypQckrkKRP9Ds29gJWXG4xFYknQB3MCn88TTb2htsdVUyuwGY0RmldJbKkeFz1Voabo8HbiIo12AWqctYxlDSLmjKt6wi_fmgu-45XkQ9fELFnRVe5Q90h82V6h2xszhc5gk/s1600/Linda+sig2.png" style="cursor: move;" /></a></div><br />

Designers Should be a Resource for their Clients

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Thanks to An Urban Farmgirl and the power of Pinterest

I wanted to share a quick shout out to Mary of <a href="http://urbanfarmgirlandco.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Urban Farmgirl</a> blog for pinning two of my portfolio images onto her <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/urbanfarmgirlco/" target="_blank">Pinterest page</a>, sharing with her 62,000+ followers! I received hundreds of hits on my <a href="http://lindamerrill.com/Linda_Merrill/Portfolio-Duxbury-Casual_Living_Room_1-Interior_Design-Massachusetts.html" target="_blank">portfolio site</a> in the last couple of days. <br /><br /><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://lindamerrill.com/Linda_Merrill/Portfolio-Duxbury-Casual_Living_Room_1-Interior_Design-Massachusetts_files/shapeimage_5.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="388" src="http://lindamerrill.com/Linda_Merrill/Portfolio-Duxbury-Casual_Living_Room_1-Interior_Design-Massachusetts_files/shapeimage_5.png" width="640" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://lindamerrill.com/Linda_Merrill/Portfolio-Duxbury-Kitchen_Room_1_-Interior_Design-Massachusetts_3_files/LD%20Kitchen.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="640" src="http://lindamerrill.com/Linda_Merrill/Portfolio-Duxbury-Kitchen_Room_1_-Interior_Design-Massachusetts_3_files/LD%20Kitchen.jpg" width="512" /> </a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">These are pics of a seaside community garden house I did in Duxbury, Massachusetts a couple of years ago. The clients live in a high end senior community (when they aren't in their Cape Cod beach house or winter home in Mexico) and have an amazing collection of art and antiques. Truly so much fun having worked on this project, turning a large but bland garden unit into a comfortable showplace for their treasures! You can see the enitre<a href="http://lindamerrill.com/Linda_Merrill/Portfolio-Duxbury-Casual_Living_Room_1-Interior_Design-Massachusetts.html" target="_blank"> project here</a>. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnfGdwYg9d72YtSVuaY7cxQQwGmoCmDDT5GQtTc6_j1x0d2xIjZulGJaQtanedLIAgAx3kkuLsPSKkjN2bP3zLDXsW5kOK1pKz3wLLVXAhfsUWNGS9xUOpgnlrFlgkW1JYGhSLd9no5U8/s1600/Linda+sig2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnfGdwYg9d72YtSVuaY7cxQQwGmoCmDDT5GQtTc6_j1x0d2xIjZulGJaQtanedLIAgAx3kkuLsPSKkjN2bP3zLDXsW5kOK1pKz3wLLVXAhfsUWNGS9xUOpgnlrFlgkW1JYGhSLd9no5U8/s1600/Linda+sig2.jpg" /></a></div><br />

Thanks to An Urban Farmgirl and the power of Pinterest

I wanted to share a quick shout out to Mary of Urban Farmgirl blog for pinning two of my portfolio images onto her Pinterest page , sharing...

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